Q&A: Ladies, if you have done this; did it work?
Question by Lioness: Ladies, if you have done this; did it work?
He is taking me for granted and I have a suspicion the he’s even cheating on me. I give him everything, my love, my time, fidelity, money, support, etc.He gives me nothing in return, I really don’t feel like his girl cause he treats me like his “ho”. When my bill was due, he wouldn’t help me but expects and will accept money if I offer to give it to him to pay his. I am tired of it now and I want to back away, but I want it to be subtle so one day he’ll look up and I’ll be gone.
I was told that if a woman backs away ( or seems like she has) from a relationship it will make a man “take notice” and change to get her back. Is this true? Has anyone done this and have it work?
I just want him to realize that he has a good woman and that he’s about to lose her.
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Answer by Markita
I have not done this and to be completely honest its only a temp. fix he wont completely change, after a while he’ll go right back to the old shit u just need to find u a man that’ll love you and want to take care of you
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Instead of waiting on him to realize what he’s got, how about realizing what your worth is and dump that sorry excuse for a man?
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LikeDislikeYou might as well make it as drastic as possible. He might try to fix things with you, but he’s never going to completely change. Once men hit a certain age, their mold is solid. I’d say go find someone that’s worth your time.
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LikeDislikehe will. but you can never make the change permanent only he can. and if all it takes to keep you around is to change for alil while then clams its stress or anything els he needs to keep you. he will only change if he truly wants. so dont just back of alil. leave and wait and see IF he changes and if it doesnt change back, or another girl steps in. im sorry and hopes this helps.
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LikeDislikeyeah, right. been reading a lot of paperback novels or smth? dream on, that’s gonna help u
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LikeDislikeleave his ass.
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LikeDislikeYou can’t change him. And really, why would you want him? He already treats you like crap. Even if he did come around you already know he is heavily inclined to take you for granted.
Drop the zero and find yourself a hero.
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